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I've got no details or information beyond that.This is Val, Aaron's sister. My family and I are still working out what we wanted to say and do on the site. But at this time, however briefly, I thought it was... Read More
I only ever really knew him through his words, but they were good ones: they were funny, they went on both wisely and too well about things like comics and Buffy, they stood up for small things; they suffered no... Read More
I only ever visited Uppity-Negro a few times, but I was aware he existed and was well respected in a nearby corner of the overlapping neighborhoods of the blogosphere. Read More
My heart is heavy. Aaron Hawkin, editor and writer of Uppity-Negro.com has passed away. The details of how, where, why and when have not been posted yet, but his passing is already being felt throughout the blogosphere. ALLABOUTGEORGE.com: Hiatus is su... Read More
Sad news to report. Aaron Hawkins, of Uppity Negro, has passed away. No details are available yet. He was a unique and talented voice in the blogosphere. You can leave your condolences here.... Read More
I did a round of web surfing and I find that Aaron Hawkins of Uppity-Negro.com is dead. Gone. I did some reading on some other sites and the people who knew him had great things to say about him. I... Read More
We've lost a fellow blogger, Aaron Hawkins of Uppity Negro. Please stop by and give Aaron's sister your condolences. (†Jay) Read More
Aaron Hawkins of Uppity Negro died. Little info is known at this time. Thanks to Liza Sabater for the head's up. Read More
A truly funny and thoughtful voice in the blogosphere is now silent. Aaron Hawkins of Uppity Negro has passed away. There aren't many details at this time. Via email from Liza Sabater. --Roxanne Read More
Aaron Hawkins, the brilliant writer of Uppity Negro, has passed away. My condolences to his family and friends. Strange silence,... Read More
Blogging is strange sometimes, because although you rarely meet the people with whom you regularly conversate, I often feel like I know many of my contacts as well as those I know in my life off-line. Aaron is one of those. Aaron of Uppity Negro has pa... Read More
Aaron of Uppity-Negro Blog has died... Please go and share condolences with the Family of a Fellow Blogger, whether you read his stuff or not, he was one of us.... Read More
Aaron Hawkins... The Uppity-Negro. Just got to laugh and get all misty-eyed at the same time. Brutha Aaron has passed... Read More
This is stunning news. Uppity-negro.com was one of the first blogs I ever read, and probably the very first "Black blog" I discovered, back when I was still wondering if there were any. Aaron was a pioneer in this corner... Read More
I've just learned, via Jay, that Aaron of Uppity-Negro.com had died. No further details as far as I can tell. Perhaps you were familiar with the site, came across it once or twice - perhaps not. In any case, Aaron... Read More
I didn't know Aaron Hawkins personally, I just followed his work. I stopped by a few times in the last 10 days and noticed a....gap. But it's the tail end of summer. Today I read this. I'm with Sour Bob Read More
" All go to the same place; all come from dust, and to dust all return." - Ecclesiastes 3:20 Fellow blogger, Aaron, of The Uppity Negro is no longer with us. Please pray for his family in their time of... Read More
Aaron "Uppity Negro" Hawkins has passed away. It was confirmed by his sister, and I was tipped off by Misty, and Camilo has a mention on his page. My condolences and heartfelt sympathies to all his friends and family.... Read More
A quick pass through the 'sphere to see what I missed, and apparently it was quite a lot:A movement may be cranking up to recall Tulsa Mayor Bill LaFortune. Nearly... Read More
Damn! Damn! Damn! If you wake up in the middle of the night and can't get back to sleep, steer... Read More
Aaron Hawkins wasn't someone I knew well, even by blogospheric measures where someone you've never met in person can be a close friend. He and I reside - "resided" in his case, dammit - in the same general neighborhood of... Read More
News of a pioneering blogger’s death has sent shock waves through the blogosphere. Read More
This site owes its name to Uppity-Negro, Aaron Hawkins' weblog. (That's Aaron right over there.) We will miss him. On Tuesday, Sept. 14, we will be changing our site's description to read "Negrophile.com: An Uppity-Negro.com Fansite," and invite you... Read More
I just am bringing this over wholesale from my livejournal.... Read More
I'm reading blogs an hour or so outside of Montreal. There's some bad news. I was saddened to hear about the passing of Aaron Hawkins. This is a great loss to all of us and to blog-literature. My sincere sympathy Read More
I was deeply upset to find out today that Aaron Hawkins the writer behind the wonderful blog Uppity Negro Read More
A couple of developments over the past week had eerie parallels, in terms of keeping one's memory alive: - Aaron Hawkins of Uppity-Negro.com died. Judging from the feedback (over a hundred comments and trackbacks as of this writing), he'll be sore... Read More
In memory of Aaron Hawkins, c u l t u r e k i t c h e n joins Negrophile in turning our websites into official Uppity-Negro fan sites. On Tuesday, Sept. 14, our site's description will read "Negrophile: An Uppity-Negro.com Fansite." If you want to join... Read More
RED HERRING | Bloggers mourn a lost brother On Thursday, news of a pioneering blogger’s death sent a shock through the blogosphere, an online world of private reflection in a public arena. Since 2000, Aaron Hawkins, 34, used his weblog,... Read More
It seems that one of the more unique voices in the blogosphere has passed away...... Read More
Aaron Hawkins of the Uppity-Negro Blog has passed away. My condolences to his family. He will be sorely missed.... Read More
Through Pandagon, I found out that Aaron Hawkins of Uppity Negro passed away. I usually read his blog on a weekly basis to catch up, but I hadn't much of a chance in the last couple of weeks due to Read More
Through Pandagon, I found out that Aaron Hawkins of Uppity Negro passed away. I usually read his blog on a weekly basis to catch up, but I hadn't much of a chance in the last couple of weeks due to Read More
Aaron Hawkins of Uppity Negro is gone. I've been paying so much attention to the state primary and horserace sites the last few days, I didn't even find out until today. I was going to sit down and write on... Read More
Aaron Hawk, author of UppityNegro.com, was found dead recently, victim of an apparent suicide. When he chose to be funny, he could be laugh-out-loud funny, and that's why I kept track of him. I was also deeply intimidated by... Read More
The viciously funny blogger Aaron Hawkins, AKA Uppity Negro, has passed away. His sister has been spotted over there, so if you were a fan, she'd probably appreciate hearing how much we all loved his work.... Read More
Oh my God, I can’t hardly believe it. I didn’t know Aaron, but have had several interactions with him over... Read More
Aaron Hawkins is dead. Aaron was funny. This is a damn shame. -- W... Read More
Heartbreaking.... Read More
Aaron Hawkings, author of popular Chicago blog Uppity Negro, has recently died. His site was known for its progressive politics and terse, witty style. The news was announced on his blog by his sister September 9th. A recent message posted on the si... Read More

You don't know me at all, but my thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.
It's a hard thing to read, too. If not nearly so hard as to write. I only knew him through his writing, but that's enough to miss him something fierce.
My deepest condolences to your family. I also only knew Aaron through his writing, and I will still miss him very much.
Val, God bless you and yours. I only knew Aaron from his words; we went back and forth with each other. I'm so, so sorry.
I have visited this site a few times, and marveled at the beauty of Heathers photo's of Aaron, and want to say even though we are strangers I feel the tug of my heart at such a sad loss. Know that there are many out there, whom this has touched deeply today. I find myself sad even though I have never spoke to Aaron.....my thoughts and prayers are with your family. He is at peace, and a place where all is calm.....
I only knew Aaron through this site, but I will say that his wit and politics have been an inspiration. My prayers go out to you and your family.
I had the chance to meet Aaron in Chicago in June, and have just heard this terrible news. Val, I am so, so sorry, my heart goes out to you.
I, like so many others who have written here, did not know Aaron personally...I only knew him through his writing. I'm so saddened to know that the world has lost such a brilliant and good soul. I send my heartfelt prayers to your family and all of Aaron's friends, though I wish there was more I could do. Please keep us posted as to any arrangements and memorials for Aaron. I know I for one would be happy to donate to something that was important to him.
I met Aaron with Rachel in Chicago. Val, I'm so sorry.
I've been visiting this site for a couple years, only ever posted once. I have often thought, "How happy it makes me that there are people like Aaron in the world." Well, there is one less now.
My condolences to his family. I will always remember him.
My deepest condolences to you and your family, Val. I hope you take some small comfort in the fact that Aaron's writing was read and enjoyed by a lot of folks; you can see just by this thread how many people he touched and inspired. He will be greatly missed.
My condolences to his family and friends. I only knew Aaron through his words here but I too will miss him.
I am so sorry to see Aaron gone. He will be missed. My thoughts and prayers are with all family and friends.
I'm so sorry for your loss, Val. My sympathies to you and your family.
My condolences to the Hawkins family. I haven't been online much the past 2/3 months, so I was shocked to find out today about Aaron.
I so regret not making the trip to Chicago this past June. There were plans for about dozen of us bloggers to meet during Juneteenth. Once that fell through, I thought about meeting Aaron during the most recent BEA.
He'll be missed tremendously.
I went to high school with Aaron at Crete-Monee High for a year before moving back to Chicago. We used to hang pretty tight for a while watching Dr.Who and reading comics. I live in Japan now and I found this site a few months ago by Googling his name. I send condolences to the family. This cat was way cool. My heart goes out.
Sam
My condolences to your family.
I, like many others, have been an avid reader of this site. I only know your brother by his writing.
May ask, what happened? I feel like I'm coming into the middle of the story, that I'm missing a part of the narrative. How? Why? Where?
Sorry, just want to know.
Incredibly sorry to find this out. My sympathies.
I'm so sorry. Your brother was a wonderful writer.
I am so very sorry for your family's loss. Aaron will be missed.
My condolences to the family :(
My deepest sympathy goes out to you and to yours. The Internet will miss Aaron.
I am so, so sorry. My condolences to your family. I never met Aaron in person, though I thought it would only be a matter of time. I am mourning tonight for someone who I only knew as pixels on a screen; I can only imagine what you who knew him all his life must feel.
Oh my. I was also a reader. And he will be missed greatly. I am so, so sorry.
This is a real stunner. Aaron was too funny to die.
Please accept my condolances.
I just found out about Aaron's Diary.. and am soo saddened by this news. My prayers are with all of his family and all of his dear friends and hope that his life will be celebrated in the Great Heaven's of Life! Hugz n Lub, Bebe da FairyGodMum
RIP Aaron
I'm sorry to hear that. An inspired mind who will be missed, obviously, by many. I'm glad I had a chance to share in his gifts.
I first started reading Aaron's weblog a year or two ago and I was always in awe of his writing, biting and sarcastic as it could be. I'm very sorry to hear he passed away and my condoleances go out to his family and friends.
He will be missed
I didn't know Aaron personally, but I am friends with and work with his sister Karen. My heart goes out to the Hawkins family along with many prayers. May God give you all strength during this difficult time.
We all love you Karen...
Tammi
I am very sorry to hear this sad news. Please accept my condolences.
I am so sorry. Aaron was a thoughtful, humorous and intelligent writer. I only knew him in the blogosphere, but his wit and sharp insights will be missed.
My heart goes out to you and your family.
My condolences to you and your family. I pray that you find peace in these moments. Your brother touched a lot of people through his words.
I'm so very sorry for your loss.
So, so sorry...Aaron's voice was truly unique and although I only found this site a few months ago, I will miss it.
Supportive thoughts and prayers to you and your family.
I'm so sorry for your loss.
I'm so sorry to hear it. You're in our prayers.
I'm sorry for your loss. May he Aaron at peace.
Aaron will be missed. You have my deepest sympathies and condolences.
Very sad news. He was a fine writer, one of the good guys of this world, and will be missed by all.
I'm sorry for your loss.
My condolences to your family in this difficult time.
I feel as though I lost a family member. I hope you and your family make it through.
My deepest sympathy, he will be missed.
This is a terrible loss for the blog community. My condolences to you and your family. Please know that there many, many of us out here thinking of you.
if there is anything you need -- geeky assistance with things around here, is mostly what i have to offer -- please email me, i'm pretty handy with MT and servers and things.
i can only imagine what you're going through, but i know i want to help in any way i can.
Val,
You have the condolences of my family.
God Bless your family.
Joel Gaines
My deepest condolences to you and your family.
To Val, and to all of Aaron's family and friends, I am so sorry for your loss. I miss him more than I would have thought possible for someone I communicated with entirely through a computer. Nalo put it very well. I'm crushed by what's happened, but I know your pain must be so much greater. Perhaps it could provide some small consolation to know that Aaron was loved and appreciated by so many in the blog world, including me. As Laura said, it always made me feel better to know someone like Aaron was out there, and I feel the loss of him greatly. He will be remembered fondly by many for a long time to come.
Aaron seemed like a great guy. My condolences for you and my family.